April 2024 was a month of transition for me. It wasn't just my birth month, but the month my family and I chose to move. We made this audacious decision to leave behind the comforting familiarity of Nigeria for a new chapter in Canada. This was not a case of merely changing address; this was a leap of faith into the unknown, leaving an enviable career and forging ahead.
I had risen in Nigeria through a career ladder that any person would envy. I was deep into my job, with a lot of influence, and a reservoir of respect and admiration from friends and foes alike. Of course, the stability and success I enjoyed were not solely the result of hard work but rather a testament to years of hard work and passion. Yet as fulfilling as this career was, there was an emerging desire for something different-a new horizon promising fresh challenges and opportunities.
Emigrating to a new country is always daunting. It's not just a question of adjusting oneself to a new job market or learning a new culture; it means re-establishing one's identity and finding your way through an entirely different system of living and working.
Our journey began with high spirits and anticipation, but things took a turn when we missed our connecting flight from Vancouver to Calgary. Arriving late in the evening, we faced a cascade of problems: delayed luggage and the exhaustion that comes with a long journey.
The airport’s hustle and bustle felt overwhelming, and we were left to navigate our way through the chaos, all while keeping our spirits up. Despite these hurdles, there was a profound sense of relief that we had arrived safely. Sometimes, the most important thing is just being grounded in a new place, ready to face the future.
One of the most striking aspects of our arrival was the realization of how different life would be. As one of the minority in a predominantly different demographic, we were suddenly aware of our place in a new social tapestry. Yet, rather than feeling isolated, we were eager to understand and embrace our new environment.
Despite the challenges, the experience has been enriching. Canada’s multicultural environment has offered us a sense of belonging and a platform for growth. I’ve had the opportunity to meet people from all walks of life, each bringing their own unique perspectives and experiences.
The job market, while different from Nigeria’s, has presented its own set of opportunities. The skills and knowledge I brought with me have proven to be valuable assets, and I’m slowly finding my feet and hopeful for the future.
A New Chapter
For my family, this move has been a journey of adaptation and growth. Our children are flourishing in an environment that values education and offers numerous extracurricular activities. The Canadian lifestyle—marked by its emphasis on balance, health, and community—has been a refreshing change.
One of the most heartwarming discoveries was the politeness and friendliness that define Canadian culture. Even in less favorable situations—like dealing with missed flights or lost luggage—there was an underlying sense of courtesy and understanding from everyone we encountered. This politeness was a refreshing change and made the stress of our journey more manageable
No journey is complete without sampling the local cuisine, and our first taste of Canada’s culinary offerings came with the famous
poutine. This classic dish, consisting of fries topped with cheese curds and smothered in gravy, was a delightful revelation. It was comfort food that not only satisfied our hunger but also symbolized the beginning of our new life. As we savored each bite, it felt like a small but significant step toward feeling at home.
The Job Hunt
As thrilling as this new chapter was, it also came with its challenges. One of the immediate tasks ahead was finding employment. The job market in Canada is different from what we were accustomed to, and navigating this new landscape was both exciting and daunting. I knew it would take time to translate my skills and experience into opportunities in this new environment. The process of job hunting, with its own set of trials and tribulations, became a test of patience and persistence. I am still actively searching for a job and every help is welcome. In the meantime , I am volunteering my time to gain the “elusive” Canadian experience and to network.
Despite the challenges we faced upon arrival, there was a shared sense of optimism and excitement in our family. Every hurdle was met with resilience, every inconvenience with a smile. As we adjust to life in Canada, we carry with us the lessons learned from our journey—the importance of gratitude, the value of kindness, and the joy of embracing new experiences.
As we continue to settle in, we’re learning to appreciate the nuances of Canadian life and to find joy in the little things, like a warm welcome from a stranger or the thrill of trying new foods.
The journey is just beginning, and while the road ahead may be filled with challenges, it is also filled with opportunities and adventures. Through the eyes of my children, the kindness of the people we’ve met, and the unique experiences we’re gathering, I am reminded of the excitement and possibilities that come with starting anew. Here’s to the next chapter in Canada—a chapter we are eager to write, one day at a time.
Conclusion - Blair Shunk:
I met Olamide through a connection with the Calgary chapter of the Oilfield Christian Fellowship. Her bright spirit and determination to make this move to Canada work are inspiring.
Olamide and her husband have 3 children who are attending school. Her husband is working part time, and she is volunteering at two pharmacies in south west Calgary. Feel free to download her resume, perhaps you can help her in her job search.
I encourage you to connect with Olamide on LinkedIn to help extend her new network in Calgary. (Click here to connect)
I will encourage Olamide to give us regular updates to post, and will do my best to assist in her family's efforts to make Canada their home.
Thank you so much Blair. The journey is just starting and I am excited at what God is doing and will still do....